You know how they always say that you can't judge someone until you've walked a day in their shoes? Well, aparently after spending the week here, my sister feels that walking in my shoes is just way to hectic! The poor thing, I think I scared her away from ever wanting to move home or have children! No, it wasn't that bad, but there were numerous times when she would look at me and say, "I don't envy your life." I kept telling her that it's not so bad, but I guess, when I really sit down and look at all I've got going on, it is that bad... but bad in a good way, you know? I mean, I thrive on being busy. I really do, unfortunately. And of course, in the midst of the craziness, I crave solitude and peace. And I told her that she could have two kids as close as mine and chose to not volunteer for things or make huge gifts for people, but I'm not sure she believes me when I say it COULD be easier. Anyway, Abbie, if you're reading, which I know you are, here are the top ten reason you are going to make a good mom!
10. If you can put up with Polly's hair everywhere, you'll deal well with the messes kids can make!
9. Your obsession with all things Peanuts will help you understand the All-Elmo-All-The-Time thing that drives me crazy.
8. You actually have a good voice so when you sing to your kids your husband won't mind so much!
7. Without as many hobbies as me, you'll have more time to devote to the little ones.
6. You not only can cook more than just mac n' cheese, you're a good cook, so your kids will be good eaters!
5. You're not scared of bugs.
4. You won't call every bird, a bird. (I see myself reading to your kids and when I point out the "bird", your 2 year old will look at me like I'm an idiot and give me the latin name for the damn bird! :)
3. Your kids will love and respect the earth, they will recycle, and will always yell at their Aunt for throwing her gum out the window.
2. You will see to it that your kids have an imagination, a love for exercise and sports, and a love of learning.
1. You will love them more than I can even say b/c you love your nieces so much... multiply that love by 1,000 and it still won't compare.
Now, once you're a mom you can revisit this list if you need to every once in a while (as I'm sure there will be updates!) b/c every mom needs to hear that they're doing a good job! And my dear, you will do an amazing job. So please don't let this tiny walk in my shoes scare you for life! My life is hectic, and crazy and out of control a lot of the time, but it is also so absolutely wonderful you have no idea.
Love you Ab!
